Monday, September 24
Motherhood is not a competition
Today is my birthday
I'm 44 years old.
And I'm kinda feeling it this year (big grin)
I've been employed in the best job in the world
motherhood, for almost 19 years
And you would think that by now
I would understand that my own experience as a mom is unique.
My children are each unique.
Four beautifully and perfectly made kids.
Each with their own strengths and weaknesses.
And yet, from time to time, in the small free moments of the day
I cannot help but begin to compare myself to others
Or I start to think about why can't my child be just a little more "x", like hers?
Or why can't I be less anxious, like she is always so calm
Or maybe if I went to the gym more, I'd have more energy like her
And I forget
That motherhood is not a competition or a series of comparisons
It's a unique experience
One that I never thought would turn out like it has
And for all the times that I started to compare myself or my kids to someone else
I now realize are little lost moments
So I'm thinking for the next 44 years, by the grace of God
motherhood will be absolutely savored
for whatever it is
the joy, the grief, the friendships with other moms, the parenting of my four
because it's all mine
and I need all those little moments.
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